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Joe Neuhaus's avatar

Many families share this dynamic, especially immigrants fleeing poverty or violence. It's survival of the soul.

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Ramona Grigg's avatar

Such a beautiful, poignant story. It sounds like your mother had PTSD, and why wouldn't she? What a horrific childhood. It could be she wasn't even aware of those truth spurts that seemingly came out of nowhere but had been hidden for so long. The brain finds remarkable ways to protect us when we've been through hell and back.

What a tribute to her ability to mother, that you've found such a loving way to look at her now.

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