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Susie Kaufman's avatar

You captured the feel of nursing home life perfectly. I spent countless days in such places in the course of my work, but never became entirely accepting of the pureed food, the people nodding in their chairs. It's amazing to me that I know this environment very well, but never really believe this will happen to me. The denial of the people who go home at the end of the day is part of the culture of nursing home life.

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Mary Anne Ferguson's avatar

alica, a heart rending story for sure but tempered by the fact your father seemed content, he would go with the flow and had a loving daughter who dutifully visited until the end. not all the frail elderly have these plusses for their final destination. you should be proud of the care you gave your dad.

Mary Anne

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