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Barbara Goldbloom-Hughes's avatar

You touch my heart with this piece. It’s hard enough for any mother to care for two children born eighteen months apart, but those of us who adopt bring another set of expectations to our role as mothers. I was convinced that parenting was ultimately all about nurture with nature playing a much less significant role. Yes, you and I are mothers who have loved and advocated for our children with every ounce of energy we could muster. In the words of my late and very wise father, “You can’t live your children’s lives.” It’s taken me almost forty-five years to accept this.

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Janice Walton's avatar

I find that to be true of "grandmotherhood" as well. I have been doubly blessed with the gifts of my children and my grandsons. Who would have known they would teach me so many important and loving lessons.

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