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Sue Fleck's avatar

Enjoyed the images so much, especially the bone marrow - finally , at the end as coda to your love and admiration for your strong boned, courageous Babushka. (The catfish whiskers in the soup ? What is the word for an image that constantly replays … ). Thank you..

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Lin Morency Buckland's avatar

This is a wonderful, funny, moving, and inspiring story. A fitting tribute to that band of grandmother heroes that created the foundation for our lives today. Thank you!

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Spyro Rondos's avatar

Pretty fantastic. Thank you.

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Barbara Goldbloom-Hughes's avatar

A wonderful story that engaged all my senses! I would love to see it turned into an illustrated short story.

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Ruth Miller's avatar

Loved this story!

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Silvana Lucia's avatar

What a stunning piece of writing Anna. I can relate to so much of your story. My mother also traveled alone by boat, from one side of a war-torn world, to another, very different one. A small trunk, no language, little education and few skills, she built a life and sacrificed so much for my siblings and I. Such brave women. And the bone marrow is absolutely the best! 😂

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Anna C Rumin's avatar

Thanks Silvana -

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Bryan Demchinsky's avatar

These are memories so worth keeping and you’ve preserved them beautifully.

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prue batten's avatar

What a re-telling. How delicious.

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Jill Swenson's avatar

Sucking the bone marrow out of life. Wowza.

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Shelley Marie Motz's avatar

Beautiful. Thank you so much for sharing these vivid and touching memories. She sounds like an amazing woman. I would have liked to know her.

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Just Sayin''s avatar

Another unsung hero, until you wrote this piece! It's as we remember those who were so precious to us as little ones that we realize how blessed we have been to grow up when we did, where we did. Now our turn to fight for that way of life has come again. My grandparents came from "the old country" with their old country ways and paved the way for my father and I to flourish in our time in this land of milk and honey. They endured privations I can only imagine leading to the wrenching decision to leave their homeland, their village, their friends and family in search of safety, freedom, peace in America. God bless your babushka who did the same for you.

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Anna C Rumin's avatar

thankyou!

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Paula Halpin's avatar

Memoir writing at its finest. A delight to read again.

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Judith Posner's avatar

OMG. I can't believe they left the marrow! I can taste it.

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Anna C Rumin's avatar

the best! thankyou

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Jan.Morrison's avatar

The best of humans! Thank you so much for sharing so generosity.

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Elaine Kalman's avatar

You were so lucky to have such a grandmother. Your story speaks of intergenerational love and generosity and strength. What a proud legacy!

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Kristin Shannon's avatar

Anna, you deserve that award and so many more. As does your grandmother. Oh how I loved this beautiful evocative honest piece of writing! Plum trees and pillowcases. And such love.

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