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DD.'s avatar

Beautiful.

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you, Elaine ❤️

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Ruth Miller's avatar

A moving piece, beautifully written about what life gives us and takes away. Thank you Jen

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Joe Neuhaus's avatar

Brilliant, touching, and universal.

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you so much for reading, Joe.

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Susie Kaufman's avatar

If a piece of writing could be more than perfect, this would be it. Thank you especially for "deep animated catalogue."

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jen parker's avatar

Susie! I feel the same way about his comment ;) Thank you!

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Joan Eisenstodt's avatar

It has been a season of loss. Has it for all? Being an empath, a word I didn’t know (v empathy I did) until some years ago makes so many deaths those I born. In my religion we have a prayer that asks would we want no more deaths if it meant no more new lives. I always choke up, cry and think and never reach an answer.

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jen parker's avatar

Thanks for sharing this unanswerable question, Joan

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Joan Eisenstodt's avatar

It remains very difficult.

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Jinks Hoffmann's avatar

Thank you for such magnificent writing about your family as they experience some of life's glorious and ghastly realities. I love your son.

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you, Jinks. I have to say he's pretty magical :)

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Sandra Paikowsky's avatar

her son's voice was clear and wonderful

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you, Sandra!

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Julie Wise's avatar

The sun cannot return people. Oh the weight of that phrase. And the yearning your words evoke for all those in my life who will not return. Thank you (and your son) for this honest conversation and reminder that we are alive today, in this moment, and that is something to celebrate.

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jen parker's avatar

Alive again today - yes, so worthy of celebration and yet somehow hard to keep track of the gift. Thank you for reading and this lovely comment, Julie.

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Gina Roitman's avatar

Exquisite and Lyrical. But painful.

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you, Gina. I love the adjectives you chose -- these are life.

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Stephanie Thurrott's avatar

Beautifully written!

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you so much, Stephanie.

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Robin Rosenbluth's avatar

Told so well.

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you, Robin!

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Virginia  Fisher Yaffe's avatar

A profoundly exquisite piece.

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jen parker's avatar

I'll always take exquisite ;) Thank you, Virginia.

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Marci Keats Rudolph 🇨🇦's avatar

Wonderful narration of a parent’s journey with a child through life’s sorrows and joys.

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you, Marci.

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Sukhada Tatke's avatar

This is just so beautiful!

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jen parker's avatar

Ah, Sukhada -- thank you!

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Kathy Camacho's avatar

a beautiful story beautifully written

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jen parker's avatar

Thank you, Kathy!

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